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Stop Declaring (Internal) Wars

by Jessika Jake

A lot of well‑meaning but misinformed people spread notions along the lines of “Slay your inner dragons,” “Conquer your saboteurs,” “Kill the ANTs,” or “Ego is the enemy.” This language

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The Habit Loop and Your Inner Team: Navigating Change with Your Personality Parts

by Jessika Jake

Habits are hardwired into our brains, making them helpful/”helpful.” Some habits are truly helpful and they run on autopilot so they don’t use up gobs of brain power. Other habits

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Inner Teamwork Makes the Dream Work

by Jessika Jake

“Your parts are never gonna stop trying to help you, so you may as well make sure they are helping you.” – Jessika Jake NO TO: Kill the ANTS (automatic

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Holistic Wellness: What is ‘Traction’ Across all 8 Dimensions of Wellness?

by Jessika Jake

We are all very versed in what distraction is, but how often do we stop and think about the opposite of distraction: TRACTION. Traction gets us moving towards our goals.

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The Emotionally Intelligent Employee: Preparing for the Human Skills of the Future

by Jessika Jake

Emotional Intelligence (EI) is often depicted in four key quadrants: self-awareness, self-management, social awareness, and relationship management. Back in 2017 Google looked at over 100 teams and they found out

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Imposter Syndrome: What’s Up With the Internal Fam?

by Jessika Jake

Assessing Imposter Syndrome through an Internal Family Systems (IFS) Lens Thanks to WELCOA’s insightful article Can We (Please) Move Beyond Imposter Syndrome?, I have revisited and updated this post. The

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The (Superconscious) Accountability Ladder

by Jessika Jake

“Personal accountability is never about others, it’s always about me looking in the mirror and making better choices.” John G. Miller The concept of personal accountability and taking responsibility for one’s actions

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Beyond CBT: Unpacking Thought Errors as Helpful Shortcuts and When to Dig Deeper

by Jessika Jake

We’ve all experienced those moments where our thoughts seem to be working against us. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) often categorizes these as ‘thought errors’ or ‘cognitive distortions.’ But what if

My Robot Can’t Comprehend IFS

by Jessika Jake

Internal family systems is so easy for a human to understand. We are born with parts. We have an internal family of parts that is guided by “the part that’s

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EGOs are the Helpers [Part 2]

by Jessika Jake

In Part 1, I wrote about some of the different ways we address multiplicity of mind: These days I like to consider the term “human” being as: The biological spacesuit

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